Getting an erotic massage in Montreal is great, but it’s not limited to just single individuals. Couples can enjoy the service as well. This kind of massage can add a touch of excitement to a relationship. You can ask the masseuse to discuss what to expect, and often she will be very friendly and forthcoming about the whole thing.
It’s a different story when it’s not an erotic massage. Often these are more regular massages during which a couple simply wants to relax together. What’s more relaxing than a massage? It’s better in many ways than going to bars or the movies.
But what should you do? What should you not do? Each establishment’s rules are different, but many rules are the same wherever you go. Here are some basic ways you can both enjoy your couple massage:
Pick the Right Type of Massage
If it’s the first time for you or your partner, it may be best if you pick a place that doesn’t offer deep pressure massage. Try the milder forms first, such as Swedish massage. The deep tissue massage may be too uncomfortable for newbies.
Get There Half an Hour Early
The point of a massage for a couple is to relax together. So to avoid any potential stressful situation, you will want to book a session at a certain time. Make sure you specify that you’re getting a couple massage, and that the establishment offers such a service.
Then plan to arrive there at last half an hour early. Travel often means stress, especially when you’re trying to meet an appointment on time. When you get there right on time, you may both be frazzled and tense. But if you’re very early, you can relax and simmer down.
Take Advantage of the Amenities
The place may even offer steam rooms, Jacuzzis, hot showers, and a nice cup of tea. If these are privately available, sign up for them and share the experience. The entire event is meant to be intimate and private, so you should both be very comfortable with each other already.
Mention Anything that Makes You Uncomfortable
For newbies, the most uncomfortable aspect of the massage is the intensity of the pressure. It may feel too painful. If it’s your first time, tell the masseuse so that they can tone down the intensity and help you get accustomed to the sensation.
Even when you’re used to massages, it really doesn’t help if you feel pain. You need the most relaxing massage, especially now that you’re with your partner. It’s not just supposed to be relaxing—it’s supposed to be intimate and romantic too. Save your massages for your personal injuries for some other time when you’re alone.
Connect with Your Partner
Sometimes even just being in the same room together while you both get massages can make you closer to one another. What you don’t want are distractions. Turn off your smartphones, and don’t discuss problems at work or in your personal life. While you’re being relaxed by the massage, imagine that the outside world and its problems don’t exist.
Be mindful of the sensations you’re feeling. Breathe easily, and just let it all go. Close your eyes. You don’t have to talk to one another though you can if you want. But often, silence is the most relaxing option.
After the Massage, Revel in the Moment
Don’t immediately get dressed and leave the premises. Again, take time to slowly unwind from the session. Perhaps you may have planned an event afterwards to celebrate, such as a private suite at a hotel.
What you most likely should never do is to “get it on” with your partner right there and then. Unless you’re told beforehand that it’s okay (a look at the spa’s website should tell you a lot), then just don’t. Find a place of your own!
